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How do you go from changing the inside to match up with the outside? Or do you?

We all have felt different about things or perhaps ourselves and our inner side versus our outer appearance, persona, or other. Is it a plot of betrayal that we plan, when they do not go hand in hand?(sorry that rhyming poet in me came out).

I do not think so.

Sometimes people keep things to themselves, because they do not want others to figure out their motives, their thoughts, or their insecurities. On some occasions it could be something that might cause you to lose someone dear, or possibly cause you to lose your job, friends, family, or just plain out LOSE.

We all do things based on how others will perceive us or interact with us, and sometimes because we want a certain impression of ourselves seen, when it comes to another person. Sometimes people do actually plot to be a certain way or at least perceived in a certain way. In other words, it is a deliberate attempt.

Perceptions are sensing, sometimes there is a good enough reason to perceive another’s motive, thoughts, or what have you.

per·cep·tion
[pərˈsepSH(ə)n]

NOUN
the ability to see, hear, or become aware of something through the senses.

My challenge to you is this…

Try to look honestly at how you come across to another person. Honestly critique yourself. The point in this is to be the person you are, really, not the one you created for show.

Now if there is things you like to keep private, that is okay. I believe that sometimes we need our own secrets. On the occasion, though that you come across as fake or not real, you should really ask yourself why. It is all a part of self managing and being healthy from the inside, in our own minds.

I don’t know why I decided to write about this, but I hope you can gather something useful from it. I apologize if it is hard to understand. My mind thinks so much faster than I can write.

Have a good evening, day, morning, night, whatever it is where you are at.

MwsR <3

 

Thank you for reading 🙂

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