I think the saddest thing for us humans, is that we cannot get over things that happen in our lives. We hold onto them, hoping that in that we can somehow repair the damage done, but sadly, we can’t. If we truly are heartbroken, we cannot fix it by simply holding onto the hurt we feel.
We should allow ourselves time to get over the initial hurt. We should allow ourselves to put it aside, as well. There is a time and place for everything. One of our most destructive things we can do is to replay our hurts, replay our heartbreaks, replay our past mistakes.
If you truly want to free yourself, you must put things into perspective. You must prioritize things, and you should allow room for error or time to just get past things. It will not happen in a day. It will take courage. It will take fortitude, It will be hard at times, and sometimes it will seem impossible. That is just the nature of things.
Rome was not built in a day,, and neither is removing heartaches and disappointments, or mistakes. You are human, allow yourself to be and then pick yourself back up and get back to living.
In order to love life, we must love ourselves enough to actually live it.
Just some thoughts for today!
I shall be here waiting on this side of the rainbow!
The passing of the tap water over your fingers, Each sound that’s listened to as you try to sleep. Time is not ours to keep. The smells you remember, Talks on the phone, Mostly it’s the times you’ve spent alone. The opening of a new chip bag, All the anticipation Without the slightest frustration. Mind murals I reflect on, Things from a life that have come or gone. Searching not one but all, Passing someone down a hall. Eating the best food, Saving nothing for later, It was a pleasure that did matter. A favorite movie scene over and over, The same joke told a thousand times, The look in the mirror at a thousand lines. It’s simple yet quick, Effortless yet worth working for, Our moments in time for us to savor once more.
You are there
I am here
You want this
I want that
Thinking first has never been your thing
Acting first is what you bring
Hoping has been my for’te
But you think that’s a waste of a day.
I agree to disagree
But you get angry with me
I wait for you
You walk right through.
Endless work for you
Not for me, that makes me blue.
Giving up is your easy answer
Mine is to dance instead of joining the clamor.
Used to be us
Instead, it is refuse to discuss,
Standing apart
Instead of sharing one heart.
Separate ways now we concede to
Worlds apart , no me with you.
Mws R Writings 