MwsR Writings

Some people want to be near to their family, but can’t. People who wish more than anything things were different, those same people desire to belong.
Don’t forget your blessings, pray for those who are struggling today and every day, just to be asked to be in someone’s life.
Count your blessings
Remember life isn’t guaranteed. Get over past judgments and hurts or feelings that keep you from receiving blessings.

When Thanksgiving Changed by MwsR

The day has always been celebrated without your presence
The talk never has included you
But when it’s mentioned, it’s of course blamed on you.

No verbal request for you to attend
No reaching out to you to try and heal or mend
It’s okay to point fingers at you
Even though it’s okay to assume.

If you were meant to be there
There’d be no doubt left in the air
You’d feel that, right?
No need to fuss or fight

Instead, Thanksgiving changed
When no one spoke your name
When life without you was expected
Needless to say, the lack of effort, feeling rejected.

When Thanksgiving changed you weren’t there
Even though you wanted to be, you wanted them to care
You wanted to be included more than in a passing thought
It was belonging that you sought.

Go ahead and pass the blame
Don’t let it change anything
But when this old life nears its end
Maybe then…

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MwsR Thoughts

Thanksgiving Wish by MwsR

My Thanksgiving wish has nothing to do with all the yummy food.
Except that those who are hungry, that they will have some.
My Thanksgiving wish has to do with all that we have around us, either in our hearts or in our presence.
Thanksgiving is a wonderful time t o make memories with our loved ones and friends. It can also be terrible for those that are financially hurting or those families that bicker and fight.
It can be hard trying to move on and look past mistakes and grievances but we all should try.
No family is perfect, no matter how many lovely pictures and things they try to display or post about. No one family has it all together.
There will be times that you dislike each other or maybe that you just don’t connect on the same basis. That is okay.
I know with my family we have had our moments.
The hardest thing to remember is, we are only humans. God did not make us divine or spotless, or even flawless. He made us each with our quirks. He inspired us though to be better than we can and to keep reaching to help others and understand others and love each other.
Some people are missing from around our tables this year. Some may never have the chance to sit at our tables. Whatever it is know that you too are not alone.
As for my house, we miss those we can not see again, or talk to during this season especially. I miss that I will never get to spend a Thanksgiving with my birth mom, except once.
I miss my father-in-law and the company he frequented us with.
There is my half-sister who is in jail, again, that won’t have a good Thanksgiving. I miss times in my life when I felt connected to each one I love.
My Thanksgiving wish is that all of us look around and truly, TRULY, be happy for all we have. That maybe we can in turn help someone else who might need help and comforting.
We all know someone!
Holidays can be brutal, they can also be a time to reflect and be THANKFUL.
I choose to be THANKFUL and pray for those who need courage or resources or whatever it may be to make it through another Holiday Season.
If you have managed to sit through this post I am thankful for that too.
Wishing you all a Happy Thanksgiving!

MwsR Thoughts

To the person who

Feels embarrassed by the house they live in. Who wants to have friends over to visit but …they have to make reasons why they can’t have you over.

Wishes that they could afford to go on vacation with their group of friends but they don’t have the money so they have to come up with excuses.

Feels inferior to others because they always brag about what they have bought and about the next vacation they are going on. You’re feeling lower than better around them, so you avoid going anywhere with them.

So many people have so much going on in their lives. It is rarely black and white in terms of this. A lot of times there is a person who wants to go and do, who wants to have friends over but they simply feel embarrassed, stressed, broke, or left out because of circumstances they can’t manage.
I bet we all have a person in our life that we know, going through “things” like this.
Our failure as being a true friends is in letting distance and pride get in our way. We should never make another person feel inferior or that they bring nothing to the plate.
They might not get to go on vacations or fix their house up or buy new things. That should not mean that directly or indirectly our actions or words should cause them to feel this way.
Everybody wants to belong, feel loved, and that they are just as good as others.
I encourage you if you have a friend that feels bad about themselves or something in their lives because they feel they’ll never measure up to you, please think about their reasons as to why they opt-out or hide, or make excuses .
Not always but sometimes they have insecurities, perhaps feeling down, or are limited in what they want to do versus being able to.
By me, MwsR

❤️Life goes further than to the tip of your nose.

MwsR’s Thoughts

Random…Thoughts for today

I hate ever hearing the word cancer and especially knowing the cruel side effects it has on people. And people dying from it.

I am sure that dreams/nightmares, can consciously affect a person.

Everyone will not notice what you do for them, and that’s ok. It is done probably from the heart and that doesn’t need gratification if it is genuine.

I love that morning coffee. It has been a good friend.

Anyone else annoyed by the Mickey mouse on Disney?????

MwsR Thoughts

Thoughts…MwsR

If it’s true that we can find love from the most unexpected place…I want it
If it is true that the morning brings a new beginning…I pray I never miss one.
If what people say about peace is true…I want my share.
If you are reading this and life has beaten you down….reach for the heavens there you will find comfort.
If we get forgiveness… I sure need it because I fail often.
If you feel you can’t keep going…you can! Just believe it is possible.
**So many If’s!!!
Life will keep moving. It is you though who has the power to change and direct your own life.
Don’t delegate your happiness or peace to someone or something else. Choose your path.

MwsR Thoughts-Where Does Love Go?

Where does love go when someone you love dies?
I think it floats and hovers over you…
I think because the person is not living anymore there is no ” receiver” of that love.
Hmm.
Maybe one day when God comes back, he not only collects souls, he collects all that love we had to.

Just an abstract view of love.
Remember love never really dies. It lives on with us and over us and around us.
It is up to us to give it, receive it, share it, or find it.
Find your love…if you lost it. Give your love… if someone needs it. Remember to let yourself be loved. Look for love in even the smallest places.

MwsR