To the person who
Feels embarrassed by the house they live in. Who wants to have friends over to visit but …they have to make reasons why they can’t have you over.
Wishes that they could afford to go on vacation with their group of friends but they don’t have the money so they have to come up with excuses.
Feels inferior to others because they always brag about what they have bought and about the next vacation they are going on. You’re feeling lower than better around them, so you avoid going anywhere with them.
So many people have so much going on in their lives. It is rarely black and white in terms of this. A lot of times there is a person who wants to go and do, who wants to have friends over but they simply feel embarrassed, stressed, broke, or left out because of circumstances they can’t manage.
I bet we all have a person in our life that we know, going through “things” like this.
Our failure as being a true friends is in letting distance and pride get in our way. We should never make another person feel inferior or that they bring nothing to the plate.
They might not get to go on vacations or fix their house up or buy new things. That should not mean that directly or indirectly our actions or words should cause them to feel this way.
Everybody wants to belong, feel loved, and that they are just as good as others.
I encourage you if you have a friend that feels bad about themselves or something in their lives because they feel they’ll never measure up to you, please think about their reasons as to why they opt-out or hide, or make excuses .
Not always but sometimes they have insecurities, perhaps feeling down, or are limited in what they want to do versus being able to.
By me, MwsR
❤️Life goes further than to the tip of your nose.