And it Begins…

In the past you may remember the stories of "BLUE". These stories were reflective of my own life. I wrote truth in these stories. My truth. My life. Follow along as I try to bring more to you all from my life, especially growing up in a home that was anywhere from normal. I want to give others a voice. I want to share my experiences, not to lay blame but to lay claim to my life. The events that happened in my own childhood home, has greatly shaped my life today. I hope in sharing my experience that I may empower those reading , those who need to seek help, those that need to believe that life can change for them in a good way again. We are not our past. We do not have to live there anymore. There is hope, there is power within ourselves.
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I am not sure how to start, so bear with me as I work through the details and all as I start to write. I want to make it something worth reading but I have struggled a long time with how the format and all as it should be. MwsR

As far back as I can remember is where I will start this journey for you, into my life. I remember being around four. It was a Christmas holiday. I have seen pictures of it. I had a baby blue dress on with red and white cowboy boots. These boots were made from vinyl and they laced up the whole front. I was fascinated with the whole “being a cowboy era”. It was a time when no one looked at gun shooting and riding in a pose as bad things. That Christmas I received a red cowgirl hat. It was made from soft material and had a string that could be tightened to keep it on your head. It matched perfectly with my cowboy boots. I also received a set of play guns with their holsters. They were attached to a belt. I wore this proudly. Everything matched so well.

I remember the tinsel tree we had. The way the tinseled limbs would make a noise as you touched them. I loved the way the Christmas tree lights would reflect onto each facet of the tinseled limbs. For a kid such as myself, this was magical. I loved everything about our tinsel tree. I loved how the sparkles would illuminate our ceiling and other things in the vicinity of our tree. I do not know where the tree came from but I can about guarantee that if it was bought it was bought from Sears Roebuck and Company. Everything back in those early years came from Sear. It was a local department store that also shipped to places. Very convenient and popular when I was a child.

Christmas was almost predictable. You could guarantee that in my stocking that was hung somewhere, there would be nuts, oranges, apples, and a pack or two of chewing gum. Perhaps a peppermint stick or two. It would slowly change up some as I aged. Later including things like nail polish, fingernail clippers, lipgloss, tooth-brush, hair-brush, chewing gum, “Life Savers” candies, and so forth. I just knew that nuts would be forever in my stocking and they actually were each and every Christmas. Funny how you can remember details like that when you get older. Yet, sometimes you can not remember day-to-day things. I remember my own Christmases as decent and memorable.

I was asked what I really wanted for Christmas each year. More times than not I got the one thing I really wanted, That was nice. I would spend countless hours looking in the Sears catalog. It was a great thing. There was everything from clothes, to appliances, to toys, and so much more. The Sears company would come out with a great “big” book each ear around Christmas time. It was called”Wish Book” if I remember correctly. It was the “mac daddy” of all their catalogs. So much to look through, so much to see, and reasonable prices. Everybody who was anybody bought stuff from this catalog. Especially around Christmas. Because they shipped items, it was the best for sending Christmas gifts, special occasion gifts, and all. Their local stores had appliances that everyone shopped for. Later in the years, they would eventually be in every mall, and every city around. Seriously, they were the STORE.

Lots of good Christmas memories, I have. I never was disappointed. I thank my mom for most of those memories. Christmas was always about Christ’s birth but always about getting that one big wish you wanted to receive, and for the memories I have, I did. As an adult that has had three kids and four grandkids, I continue the tradition of the stockings and that one big gift Except my stockings don’t have nuts or chewing gum. Ha ha. I tried that when my kids were younger and they really did not like or understand that I gave them nuts. LOL So I never repeated that. I do however continue to put needed and useful things and every little bit, a “toy” or something fun inside their stockings. They may be in their twenties but the joy of Christmas needs to be there for them.

What was your favorite Christmas?What traditions did your family have? Was Christmas time good or bad for you and why?

MwsR

Healing Hand Cream~DIY

Healing Hand Cream with Jojoba Oil

Recipe by:

Jennafer Ashley

Heal dry, cracked hands with this homemade hand cream made with just three natural ingredients.

Tools

  • Double boiler
  • 6 oz jar

Ingredients

  • 1/2 cup shea butter
  • 2 t jojoba oil
  • 5 drops lavender essential oil

Instructions

  • To Make: Melt the shea butter in a double boiler over medium heat until it liquifies, about 7 minutes. Let it cool in the refrigerator for 15 minutes, then remove. The mixture should be opaque in color.
  • Whisk the shea butter vigorously for 5 minutes, until thick and fluffy. When ready, add in the jojoba oil and essential oil to thoroughly combine.
  • Transfer the mixture to a 6-ounce jar and store in a cool, dry spot.
  • To Use: Scoop out ½ teaspoon of lotion and massage into hands or heels of your feet. Apply at night, right before bed, for best results.
Naturally moisturize your hands with this 3-ingredient night cream that leaves your skin feeling smooth and youthful. Keep it handy for those harsh winter months!

https://blog.paleohacks.com/jojoba-oil-hand-cream/

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Healing Breakfast Soup

Healing Breakfast Soup

Healing Breakfast Soup
https://www.egglandsbest.com/recipe/healing-breakfast-soup/

Prep Time
2 min Cook Time
6 min Yield
1 serving Recipe by: Physical Kitchness

This bowl of soup is backed with vitamins, minerals, and anti-inflammatory spices!

Ingredients

  • 1 cup chicken bone broth
  •  2 teaspoons full-fat coconut milk
  • 1/4 teaspoon turmeric powder
  • 1/8 teaspoon ground ginger
  • 1/8 teaspoon cinnamon
  • Dash of cayenne *optional
  • 2 Eggland’s Best eggs (large)

Nutrition

Serving Size1 Calories178 Fat8.5 g   Saturated Fat2.5 g Cholesterol351 mg Sodium512 mg Carbohydrates2 g Protein22 g Preparation

Heat broth, coconut milk, turmeric, ginger, cinnamon, and cayenne over medium-high heat until you reach a simmer.

Whisk well to incorporate all the spices. Turn heat to low as you make the soft boiled eggs

Fill a small pot with water and bring to a boil. Gently submerge two eggs into the boiling water for 5 minutes for extra runny yolks, 6 minutes for slightly gummier yolks.

*note, adding a dash of baking soda to the water will help the eggs peel easier

Remove the eggs from the boiling water and submerge into cold water. Gently peel each egg, then cut in half and place into the soup, yolk side up

Garnish with fresh chives if desired Filed Under: Breakfast and Brunch, Main Course, Low Fat, Gluten Free, Paleo, Whole 30

Here’s How Long It Actually Takes To Heal Inflammation/ Information Share

https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/how-long-it-takes-to-heal-inflammation

1. Focus on your diet.

Taming chronic inflammation starts with what you put on the end of your fork. In other words, your best defense to fight inflammation starts with your very next meal or snack. Researchers find that a pro-inflammatory diet significantly increases weight gain and your risk for being overweight or obesity.

The best way to shift that balance is to eat fewer inflammatory foods and much more anti-inflammatory food. The latter include wild-caught fish, loads of nonstarchy vegetables, low-sugar fruit like berries and avocado, raw nuts and seeds, and cultured and fermented foods. Stop and consider, for instance, that our ancestors ate nearly an equal ratio of omega-3 and omega-6 fatty acids—whereas today we are eating 20 times (sometimes higher) of inflammatory omega-6 fatty acids. We’re eating fewer anti-inflammatory foods, but the inflammatory ones we consume (sometimes from not-so-obvious sources like almond milk or factory-raised eggs) can crowd out the healthy ones.

Take soybean oil, prevalent in pretty much any restaurant you eat, which can decrease the amounts of the anti-inflammatory fatty acids EPA and DHA. Even if you’re avoiding the usual suspects like sugar, gluten, and other high-sensitivity foods I often talk about, inflammatory foods can be slipping into your diet. Grain-fed meats, vegetable oils, roasted nuts and seeds, and pretty much any processed food in your grocery store fuels inflammation.

2. Heal your gut.

You cannot fix inflammation without fixing the gut. When your gut lining is disturbed, it cannot absorb nutrients optimally and inflammation develops. Eventually problems like leaky gut lead to food sensitivities and even autoimmune disease.

A downward spiral occurs as gut inflammation becomes systemic (or full-body) inflammation, creating pain, headaches, and other symptoms that you might never suspect originated in your gut.

Healing gut inflammation requires time and patience. The right protocol eliminates food sensitivities, incorporates plenty of anti-inflammatory foods, and includes gut-supporting nutrients like L-glutamine, probiotics, and prebiotics. Here’s a three-day plan to get you started.

3. Get the right nutrients.

If you’re not eating an anti-inflammatory diet and incorporating other lifestyle strategies delineated here, taking supplements that can lower inflammation won’t help much.

But combined with the right diet, supplements can help tame inflammation. Among the favorites I use in my practice daily are:

  • Curcumin: Turmeric is that beautiful yellow-orange spice, but its main claim to fame is curcumin, which provides anti-inflammatory, antioxidant, and gut-healing benefits. Sprinkle organic turmeric powder onto all your food, but to get the full anti-inflammatory benefits, consider a concentrated curcumin supplement.
  • Fish oil: The two main, anti-inflammatory omega-3 fatty acids, EPA (eicosapentaenoic acid) and DHA (docosahexaenoic acid), are important anti-inflammatory promoters in the body that are often deficient in the American diet. Studies have shown that these omega-3s help reduce inflammation in the gut and elsewhere. Make sure you source the right type. I only recommend practitioner-grade supplements.
  • Probiotics: These healthy microorganisms support optimal gut-flora balance, but evidence shows they can also reduce inflammation. It’s always best to source a high-potency probiotic from a reputable company that focuses on gut health. Read my guide to choosing probiotics here.

4. Avoid environmental toxins.

Many of the over 80,000 chemicals we are exposed to daily have not been tested for human safety. They are everywhere: in our furniture as fire retardants, in cosmetics as heavy metals, in our household cleaners as emulsifiers, and in our food as preservatives. These toxins create all sorts of problems. They disrupt our hormonal balance, keep our immune system revved up, and increase our risk for diseases including cancer and autoimmune disease. Chronic inflammation plays a role in all of these problems.

Just like we are all inflamed, we are all toxic. To reduce that toxic load, you’ll want to minimize the toxins you’re exposed to daily that are under your control.

That might mean becoming more mindful about what cosmetics you use, what household cleaners you keep around, and what skin products you spread on your body, as well as drinking clean, filtered water, eating mostly organic plant foods, and if you are a meat eater, mainly consuming clean protein sources like pasture-raised meats.

You’ll also want to eat plenty of detoxifying foods, including leafy and cruciferous greens, along with spices like turmeric. Once or twice a year, consider working with a professional to incorporate a plan that provides your cells the nutrients they require to optimize detoxification. And a gut cleanse is a great way to clean out the pipes and dump some of those accumulated toxins.

5. Move your body.

Research shows that regular exercise protects against chronic low-grade systemic inflammation present in diseases, such as type 2 diabetes and cardiovascular disease. I like to use the word “movement” as opposed to “exercise” because movement encompasses a broader array of activities.

Yours might include yoga, brisk walking, or weight resistance exercises. Research shows high-intensity interval training, which is fast and effective, can reduce the inflammation that contributes to disease like cancer. But remember this—if you’re a CrossFitter or do any high-intensity exercise, then stock up on the anti-inflammatory nutrients I mentioned above. Moderate exercise reduces inflammation, but extreme exercise (like marathon training and Tough Mudders) will increase inflammation.

The important thing is that you do something that challenges your body without abusing its limits.

6. Manage your stress.

Stress is a major and underestimated factor that affects inflammation, even when all other lifestyle behaviors (like diet and exercise) are on point.

Stress increases inflammation, regardless of how good you’re being with your diet. It activates the fight-or-flight response that makes you feel like you’re under attack when you’re not. It can lead to elevated blood pressure, palpitations, and reduced blood flow to the intestines, resulting in poor digestion and assimilation of nutrients.

Some of my patients live under and handle such elevated levels of stress on a daily basis they consider it normal. They have become desensitized to the thought of stress, but their bodies have not been desensitized to the ravages of stress. Essentially, they’ve ceased to notice what a huge impact stress has on their lives. I often point out to my patients how full their plates are and how even if the load they carry (between work and social life) feels “normal,” it shouldn’t be their “normal.”

Forty percent of Americans get less than the seven hours of recommended sleep per night. When compared to the amount of sleep Americans got in 1942, we are getting one hour less per night. That’s outstanding considering modern technology should be making our lives easier, not harder. The problem is the health ramifications of sleep deprivation.

Studies support what I see regularly in my practice: Sleep deprivation can trigger or exacerbate inflammation. Multiple mechanisms are at work here. Sleep loss adversely alters the body’s inflammatory markers, but then you are more prone to make unwise food choices, fuel up on caffeine to get through the morning, and feel more stressed throughout your day with less sleep. Keeping inflammation under control requires eight to nine hours of solid, uninterrupted sleep every night.

Sleep hygiene is important. At least one hour before bedtime, shut down your electronics, block out sleep-disrupting blue light by putting on your blue-spectrum-blocking glasses, dim the lights, and pull up a good book to read (on paper).